Carol J. Bodenstedt went to be with the Lord on Monday, December 20, 2010, surrounded by love, in the arms of her family and friends. Carol was born in 1944 in Toledo, Ohio. A loving wife, dedicated mother, and exceptional friend to all. Her effervescent personality and positive outlook on life was contagious. She is survived and tremendously loved by her husband Harlin, and her children Stacy and Scott, brother Howard Cook, sisters Sparkle Cooley, Alice Hollingshead, Muriel Klooster, Peggy Noble, and “the kennel crew” (dogs) Buster, Maggie, Abby, Molly, Chloe, and Bailey. Carol was preceded in death by her parents Bertha and Charles Cook and brother Chuck Cook. Carol was a devoted wife and shared many special times with her family helping to run a local family business that opened in 1934. Throughout the years, she also spent time volunteering for various organizations including church, her children’s classrooms, sports, clubs, and her daughter’s sorority at Northern Arizona University, Alpha Omicron Pi. Many people described Carol as one with a strong personality, loved talking and meeting people throughout the world, and also enjoyed spending much quality time with her family. She made a difference in so many peoples’ lives on earth, and will continue to do so in heaven. We love you mom always and forever! Public visitation will be Monday, December 27, 2010, from 4:00pm-7:00pm at Menke Funeral & Cremation Center, 12420 North 103rd Avenue, Sun City, AZ. Graveside service will be private.